Recently I helped a friend at a major gay Pride event. Did you know that if you identify as a gay or bisexual male in the good ol’ US of A, you must have had no sex for the preceding three months in order to donate blood? And did you know that the same rule […]

There are no two ways about it. I am a ginger. Actually, I’m more like a super ginger. My hair is closer to orange than red, and it’s riotous as a crazy Halloween wig. I share this because it helps explain the scant bit of fair hair I have on my chest. What got me […]

Hello guys. Hayden, here. Welcome to my new blog! Mates on Dates is a safe, no-holes-barred online space where I’ll take on issues related to the sometimes thrilling, often perplexing, and uncommonly crapshooty world of gay dating. Said another way, if a subject touches on a dude trying to woo another dude, it’s fair game. […]